Stage between dating and relationship
Not telling your partner something she already knows; 4.
Keeping judgments about the other person's issues or problems to a minimum. People get married or make long-term commitments because they want to feel accepted and validated and to feel good about themselves.
The other person's habits, needs, anger and withdrawal patterns become uncomfortably clear.
In working with many couples over the years, I have come to recognize common themes that run through both the successful and difficult relationships.
There are four important factors in a good relationship: 1. Feeling as though your partner has influence over you; 3.
Each partner sets their own rules and expectations for raising children and how extended family issues should be handled.
The challenge here is to be aware of this fact and find a successful compromise in meeting each other's rules and expectations.